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Top 20 mistakes people make when they are dating
The
practice of love is an integral activity in each one’s life yet we
make mistakes in expressing it. When two people are dating, it starts
out in hope of all ends well. But, is it attainable in real life? We
all inadvertently or advertently make many mistakes while dating,
however only few will put an effort to correct them and prevent them
in occurring again with their next relationship. If you think you are
among those few exceptional lovers, this article is for you. Here is
a list of 20 frequent mistakes that we do when we are dating.
1
Excessive Self-love
“I am a recovering narcissist. I
thought narcissism was about self-love till someone told me there is
a flip side to it. It is actually drearier than self-love; it is
unrequited self-love.” – Emily Levine.
This
is the most common mistake we all do when we are dating. Being
self-confident is good but too much of it can rub your date’s
shoulder the wrong way. You are on a date, not for a job interview;
keep it simple and take it slow. Instead of being explicit, leave
some room for your girlfriend or boyfriend to guess your character;
this will titillate your relationship.
Also,
not everyone likes to put an exhibition of personal life as their
friends list may also include friends from work and at times leaders
as well. Hence, seek consent from your partner before putting up
anything on virtual world.
2
Assuming you own the other
“If our love is only a will to
possess, it is not love.” – Thích Nhat Hanh.
The
biggest problem when dating someone is, we do not know whether our
date is highly possessive unless we complete a good amount of months
of courtship. And, the trickiest part is, there is very thin line
between possessiveness and care, making it extremely difficult to
differentiate. Do not assume that dating means from henceforth you
own the life of your significant other. Possessive behavior can
hinder growth of your intimacy so you must learn to self-control and
trust your dating partner.
3
Mr. Perfect or Miss. Perfect
“Have no fear of perfection - you'll
never reach it.” ― Salvador
Dalí.
No.
They do not exist. Holding out for that person who is perfect is
equivalent to staying single forever. Everyone has faults and
problems rather look for someone who compensates your weaknesses, who
balances your lows.
4
Having conversations of ex in detail
“The first recipe for happiness is:
avoid too lengthy meditation on the past.” – Andre Maurois.
Well,
this is not new! This is a well-known mistake across the world but
still is as prevalent as a running nose. Sharing information of
ex-lovers to some extent is necessary but an in detail report is
undoubtedly uncalled for. During the initial phase, like dating, it
is about getting to know each other and not about memorizing the
former experiences. Start anew and leave the old baggage at home
itself. If getting over is challenging then seek help from experts
and then pursue a new relationship.
5
Too much of sacrifice
“Don’t sacrifice yourself too
much, because if you sacrifice too much there’s nothing else you
can give and nobody will care for you.” – Karl Lagerfeld.
This
is observed in people with low self-esteem. They are insecure and are
feel fortunate for being accepted by someone. In order to preserve
that relationship, they give up on many things that are otherwise
very important to them. They compromise and can go to any extent to
see the other person happy even if it is harming themselves. If you
think sacrificing is the right approach for a happy and healthy
relationship then it is just your foolishness. People value those who
possess self-respect and self-esteem.
6
Neglecting warning signals
“Remember that life's big changes
rarely give advance warning.” – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
Early
dating life throws many warning signals at us but often times we tend
to overlook them. If your date does not turn up at an event where
he/she promised to attend, it is an alarm and if he/she frequently
makes excuses to avoid meeting you, it is as well considered a
warning sign. Do not brush off these red flags as just part of any
relationship. No, they are not! Awake and recognize them early to
prevent major damages in relationship.
7
Over indulgence
“The
proximity of a desirable thing tempts one to overindulgence. On
that path lies danger.” – Frank Herbert.
Just
as quote puts it, it is danger. A little bit of understanding of
personal details is mandatory during the dating days but too much
intervening is harmful for any relationship. It will certainly
frighten your prospective partner. Be poised, calm and you will know
what you need to know straight from your dating partner’s mouth
when it is time.
8
Dying to impress
“Never try to impress a woman,
because if you do she'll expect you to keep up the standard for the
rest of your life.” – W. C. Fields.
It
is human tendency to impress others and when on date, that becomes
essential. Even if you manage a few weeks posing as someone whom you
are not, eventually you will have to come out of that mask, as faking
for a long time is impossible. In order to impress your crush, you
take many drastic steps so much so that at one point you appear as a
desperate to him/her. This very habit smashed chances of many dating
relationships from graduating to the next level.
9
Too much display of affection on social media
“Don't show off every day, or you'll
stop surprising people. There must always be some novelty left over.
The person who displays a little more of it each day keeps up
expectations, and no one ever discovers the limits of his talent.”
– Baltasar Gracian.
Social
media nowadays has intervened too much into everybody’s life.
Couples have even started flaunting their affection on online
platforms such as Twitter and Facebook. Online display of affection
is acceptable only up till a particular limit but too much sharing of
each other’s love affairs will soon develop cracks in the
relationship. Not everyone in your friends list would be interested
in your love life so when you exchange extreme love messages, it will
result in annoyed and irritated comments from them, which in turn
create differences between you both.
10
Assumptions
“Your assumptions are your windows
on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light
won't come in.” ― Isaac
Asimov.
Many
begin framing assumptions right after few days into dating. This is
so wrong! The lovers have to realize the fact that to understand a
person completely, it takes more than just days. Most of the folks,
during the initials days of dating, try to impress the others and do
not exhibit their true-selves totally, so making assumptions and
thinking that he or she is perfect for you is illogical.
Even
if your assumptions are correct, there is no guarantee that they stay
that way for longer period because people are ever-changing beings.
Hence, do not come to conclusions basing your assumptions.
11
Leaking intimate information to friends
“People love gossip. It's the
biggest thing that keeps the entertainment industry going.” –
Ellen DeGeneres
Never
share your intimate matters with friends because as they say – “It
is really a small world”. It is highly likely that the person you
date and you share common friends and if you share with your friends,
what you did with your date, even though you warned them not to
spread it to anyone, it will pass on among your group. Eventually it
will also reach your date resulting in unpleasant encounters. Be
cautious about what you share with your friends; never let them know
what your dating partner does not want them to know.
12
Spying the partner
Do
not spy on your date. If he/she knows that they are under
surveillance, they break free from you the very next day. If you have
doubts, ask them directly. Do not participate in any activities that
might backfire at you with ten times more intensity.
13
Not being thankful
“Let us be grateful to the people
who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls
blossom.” ― Marcel
Proust.
If
you are in a great dating relationship, be grateful and show some
appreciation towards your dating partner. Being thankful to other
person incrementally advances your relationship to stronger bond.
Studies have proved that lack of thankfulness among couples have
destroyed relationships as one of them felt unimportant during the
course of dating.
14
Unable to allocate time for each other
“No matter how busy you are, you
must take time to make the other person feel important.” – Mary
Kay Ash.
If
you are really very busy then do not consider commencing a
relationship. Dating is the first step towards a long life
relationship, if you fail to invest time and life in it, there is no
assurance that you will earn a peaceful relationship. Only when you
assign time for your partner, you can understand him/her profoundly.
15
Hoping he/she will make the first move
“Doing nothing accomplishes nothing,
gains nothing, changes nothing, and wins nothing. You have to make a
move.” ― Richelle
E. Goodrich.
Waiting
will worsen the wait more. Do not dwell in an expectation thinking
that the other person will do it first. Wait only till certain limit,
after that do not hesitate to make the first move. Extending the wait
is good to none rather it begets negative thoughts in your partner
slowly drifting both apart. Nor wait too long or attempt it too early
is the one of the best dating advices.
16
Lack of Humor
“The secret to humor is
surprise.” ― Aristotle.
This
particular quality is not restricted to men alone; it is applicable
to women as well. Both men and women want their partners to possess
at least minimum range of sense of humor. Without humor, the
conversations are dry and boring. Train yourself in the field of
comedy and you will get surprised when you put into effect the
learned skills during dating.
17
Not being honest
“Dishonesty is the raw material not
of quacks only, but also in great part dupes.” – Thomas
Carlyle
Miscommunication
is the biggest villain in dating and that may be byproduct of
dishonesty, when you try to hide true inhibitions, desires and needs
from your potential partner. Do not be in a relationship just to
please someone or for the happiness of your date. Instead, the best
thing you can do to him/her is being honest about your feelings about
the relationship. There is no point in dating someone if you are
seeing someone else off the record. Be vocal of your expectations
from the person early in the relationship so as to avoid any
misunderstandings or infidelity issues later.
18
Believing one style suits to all
“I think every person has their own
identity and beauty. Everyone being different is what is really
beautiful. If we were all the same, it would be boring.” – Tila
Tequila
Some
like it slow and some like it vigorous. Implementing same style of
flirtation to everyone is fruitless. First, try to learn the person’s
character and then react with empathy. We have been smothered with
delusions that men are all same or women are all alike but it is far
from the truth. Romantic gestures liked by one may be too much for
the other so make an effort to know the person better before
targeting your bow and arrow.
19
Too much dependency on the partner
“It is not inequality which is the
real misfortune, it is dependence.” – Voltaire.
Intimacy
has to grow when in dating but sometimes, during the process one of
the couple gradually leans too much on the other. The gesture, which
appears sweet in initial days, will soon become a potential trouble.
A few symptoms of overtly dependent person are, not able to take
decision on his/her own, feeling incapable in the absence of partner
or wanting the partner to remind their efficiency all the time.
Dating is about letting both individuals contribute equal levels of
themselves but if the balance is disturbed due to too much weight
only on one side, it will definitely break off from the bonding. Do
not harm your budding relationship with your too much dependency
syndrome.
20
Discussing future
“Have patience. All things are
difficult before they become easy.” – Saadi.
Remember,
you are still dating. Bringing up topics about future and life
decisions will fear your dating partners. It is too quick to discuss
matters that are not valid until two years from now. Be in present
and have conversations on present life situations.
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Teespring Campaign setup for Local business owners
Teespring, as most of us
already know, is a platform to create, sell and purchase custom
apparel. Teespring campaign is an advertising campaign to promote a
cause or to advertise business via Teespring-custom-made T –
shirts. It is gradually emerging as the alternative source of
advertisement for many local and small businesses. Lately, many
businesses have benefited from this type of advertising campaign.
For all those who are new to
Teespring, it is an online service where you can create custom-made
design apparel – T-shirts, hoodies, long-sleeve shirts, tank tops –
to promote your business through Teespring and your online marketing
channels. This service does not charge a penny from the user at the
time of creating the campaign. The user is not even charged for
manufacturing the shirts or for shipping the shirts to the buyers.
The user has to set a sales goal and only if the sales goal is met,
Teespring starts printing the shirts and delivering them to the
customers or buyers. Once the campaign ends, Teespring takes a
specific percentage of profit from the sales and pays the rest to the
user through PayPal or check.
The opportunities to grow your
business with Teespring campaign are enormous only if you are a
little creative in implementing the methods.
Contests, Sweepstakes and
Giveaways are best tools to engage your customers and have them glued
to your brand. The simple but effective way is starting a
Tee-campaign in relation to your business and offering perks to your
customers if they buy them.
Run a
contest at your business location that tests “Who wore it better?”
Ask your
customers to buy the shirt at Teespring and on one particular day,
let them all depict the essence of your business by flaunting your
shirt in style. Announcing exciting prizes or offers to the winners
will attract even new customers to try your Teespring campaign. This
way your business will have dual advantage of making some profit
through Teespring campaign and the other is, free business promotion
when your customers wear the shirt outside the event.
Attract
new customers with sweepstakes.
Once designed and created a campaign on Teespring, share the
Teespring campaign link on multiple communication channels such as
Facebook, Twitter etc stating you are arranging sweepstakes for
buyers who buy the custom-made apparel. Advertizing the campaign
online and directing the public to your campaign from social media
can introduce it to great amount of crowd. As Sweepstakes do not
involve showing off any skills like in contest, large number of
customers, including new ones, are expected to buy and check their
luck. With increased customers’ base, business and its sales will
automatically increase.
T-shirts
as giveaways to customers after a good purchase.
Whichever customer makes a bill more than say $100 or $200,
acknowledge their loyalty with your customized T-shirts or other
apparel. This will generate free promotion to your business whenever
they wear it and also, customer feels appreciated and continues to be
a regular customer. At Teespring, you can make T-shirts with your
company name and logo with zero initial cost, that too with your own
design on it. So, create a campaign, bulk order it and distribute to
your valuable customers.
Support
a Charity event with Teespring campaign.
Working for a social cause or charity event generates good will among
your customers. When you align your business mission with a charity,
people connect more to your products or services. Choose a nonprofit
organization and express your business’s interest in their works.
Together, start a campaign on Teespring and advertize them on social
media and other platforms where your customers’ presence is high. A
business solution when tied with a charity work, builds morale of the
company and customer loyalty, which in turn grows sales and profits.
Collaborate
with vendors in campaigning.
You have to deal
with a number of vendors for your business operation. At each step of
producing an item or providing a service, you take support from many
third party associations. Like how you partner with them for your
business, in the same way work together for your campaign as well.
Using Teespring, create a collaborative campaign along with your
vendor and get printed yours and your vendor’s business logo side
by side or in any other creative way. Through this campaign, you can
attract customers from your vendor’s side too into your business.
In addition to this, with nearly negligible promotional costs, you
have your publicity spreading distances if the vendor is from another
city or state.
Pep up
the shirts with famous characters.
People like cartoon
characters or popular comic characters. Create comic strips that
convey small stories of your business with characters that are
already famous or invent a new one like a mascot for your business.
Teespring is extremely easy to use in designing and handling the
tools so wake the artist in you and experiment to produce the best.
Ensure that the comics are hilarious and short, only then the shirts
can initiate a furor. This campaign can be contagious for its humor
outlook and can pass on from customers to their friends and from them
to so many. Thus, your business will earn a lasting partisanship if
this gets successful.
Release
the shirts on special occasions.
Be it a Halloween or
Christmas, choose the perfect timing for your Teespring campaign to
reach the maximum audiences. If you release your customized shirts in
relation to ongoing buzz, your campaign can grab attention from many.
For example, if its thanksgiving time, design your Teespring shirt in
such a way that it represents the spirit of the season and your
business.
Focus
on Niche marketing.
Discover the section
of audience that is not interested in your business. In order to draw
them towards your business, establish a Teespring campaign that
particularly interests them. For instance, if your business fails to
fascinate women, then introduce a Teespring campaign that especially
focuses on girls or women, like statement shirts and floral prints.
Correcting your drawbacks will increase your presence in market.
These are just a few ways to
grow your business and sales through Teespring campaign. With your
creativity and advertising acumen, you can fabricate more intriguing
and profitable campaigns that can help your local business to thrive
and expand.
Travelling after age 50
"Aging is not lost
youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength." Betty
Friedan
Traveling is termed as the best
mode of education that one can get. Visiting new places, discovering
new cultures and mingling with strangers bring about a new flavor in
life to otherwise mediocre life. Going on a vacation once in a while
rejuvenates a person’s mind. Holidays are exciting and fun to
anyone irrespective of his or her age and gender. Still, there are
hundreds of people who say that traveling is not for antiquated
people but for people below age 50. However, I can give them, if not
hundred, but a few reasons why I should and can travel after age 50.
Abundant Time:
I have an invaluable gift in my
hands right now that I had longed for all these years. It is Time! My
childhood years had gone in learning; youthful years had gone in
making mistakes and correcting them and adult years had gone in
planning for retirement. I had learned lessons, enlightened from my
mistakes, worked hard for good life, and finally retired. I have no
tasks ahead unless taking care of my health. This is the time where I
can live my life; this is the time that I have completely all by
myself. There is no one to control it or to schedule it. Traveling is
the best recreation anyone of my age can have.
Fewer responsibilities, less
distractions:
My children have grown old
enough to take care of themselves and there are no deadlines to meet
in order to finish a work. I mistook life to be a continuous struggle
as it was, during my working years, entangled in routine torments and
when I have come to a halt at this age, I realized those moments were
just result of my circumstances. Now, the time has arrived where I no
longer have the same distracted life and enjoy a more fulfilled life.
Going on a great trip opens up my mind to new avenues of
gratification.
Form of relaxation:
Senior age is the age of
relaxation. The old age is not just for leading a life occupied with
a series of medicines intake and monitoring of blood pressure or
glucose levels. Relaxation is attained not with medicines and normal
health reports but with activities that keep mind afresh and calm.
Through traveling, I will get to experience abatement in anxiety and
stress. Journey to spiritual places usher me into new concepts that I
never knew before and can be incredibly liberating and exciting
experience. When the mind is in an absolute tranquil state, can there
be a better form of relaxation?
Luxury affair:
Many consider getting old is
dead end but actually being a senior citizen is a boon. Aged citizens
have multiple benefits in various countries and tourist places. Most
of the countries provide discounts on tickets for people over certain
age limit. There are a numerous travel destinations where elderly
people are treated with special attention. Sometimes, a senior
citizen tag allows me to jump the queue at ticket counters. Some
famous tourist places also provide special means of transport to
older people for sightseeing of the place. Without getting strained
or energy drained, I can have a complete excursion at such places.
How cool is it!
Fitness mantra:
Exercise is something that
keeps your heart rates active and health indicators under appropriate
units. Traveling is also a type of exercise. A person who is touring
is always on the go getting the adequate exertion that is needed.
When I am traveling, I indulge myself in mindful eating instead of
excessive eating because of the fear of getting sick for having food
at new places. This fear puts my weight under control and continuous
moving from one place to other provides my muscles the necessary
movement, which is not possible if I stayed at home after retirement.
At old age, your body has to be constantly in motion otherwise it
will lose its flexibility.
Second Honeymoon:
Going to an exotic place with
my partner revitalizes the ripen romance. Honeymoon is only for the
newlyweds, is a statement of fallacy. Revisiting the honeymoon places
bring back those fond and love filled memories. The experience
revives old anecdotes and strengthens the bond between the partners.
Even couples with troubled relationships, when go on a second
honeymoon sort out the differences between them and return with
renewed love for each other.
An idle brain is the devil’s
workshop:
Retirement from work does not
mean sitting at home doing nothing. Inactivity if encouraged leads to
torpidity. When the brain stops utilizing its capability to full
extent, it starts developing health issues related to memory and
brain functionality. The chances of these perilous diseases affecting
the elder population are higher if they practice sedentary lifestyle.
When on a voyage, brain cells operate in a way similar to that when
solving a puzzle. Searching routes on maps, exploring the new place
and understanding it boosts the brain nerves keeping you and your
health away from becoming humdrum and unhappy.
As they say it, Age is just a
number and it is never too late to realize our dreams. Traveling is
passion for many but due to non-specific presumptions and
apprehensions; most of them are unwilling to step forward. If you
maintain a healthy regime and take medications on time, traveling is
not a herculean task. Leave behind the uncertainties and have a
holiday! Happy vacation!
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